Is LRT applicable here?

[Awoken]

Hello Fergie,

I'm sorry you need to be here; but I'm glad you found our community.

I don't know if you need to be doing the last resort technique.

If the WAS is convinced that the LBS doesn't love them, isn’t cutting off all contact reinforcing that in their mind?

You don't really know what your WAS thinks. She will say whatever she needs to say to justify what she is doing. It might be true, but you won't know. You need to figure out what your 180's will be. Not pursuing does not have to mean no contact. She's already given you some clues: the OM makes her laugh. Do you make her laugh? if not, become light hearted and and funny when you interact with her. It has to be sincere/real.

After reading your post, I understand you have a lot to be resentful about. Do you really want to stay married?

Hang in there