The dreaded LIMBO

[4luv]

I thought that when I moved out with our son a month ago that was a consequence and for about a week or two it seemed to get husband to thinking about his actions. But now, nothing. It doesn't seem to bother him one bit that me and his son are 6 hours away from him. IT doesn't seem to bother him that by the time he sees our son again it will have been 2 months since the last time he saw him. So if loosing his family physically isn't a consequence then I don't know what other type of consequence he would need in order to stop his destructive behavior. I am GOING into protection phase after writing this out and processing everything. IF loosing his family and then loosing contact with me won't cause a serious lost for him to turn around then I don't think that anything else I would do could either.