The dreaded LIMBO

[4luv]

June,
thx for the comment but i am not ready to file at this point...I am ready to live my life without him but not ready to put the period on the sentence quite yet. I still have that little bit of hope and faith.

Allen,

This is EXACTLY what my dad has said about husband not showing any guilt or remorse and what I noticed. He hasn't shown any remorse and keeps saying the same thing. Luckily I got EVERYTHING that I need from our apartment. I have no need to EVER make that 6 hour drive again. We have no more shared bills (besides a credit card) and really nothing else to talk about at this point. June72 is right...I am in a "self-imposed" limbo.

I have to BE STRONG and resist every crumb that husband throws me. Its easy to do when I don't see him. I won't see him for another 3 weeks and that will be for our son's first bday party that I have been planning alone. Until then, I plan to continue to follow the plan above that I laid out and hit him with my "speech" IF he asks whats going on with me.

I don't really have a support system like mb28 that will stand up to husband besides my parents. His mom is not going to really say too much more on the topic and none of the rest of his family even knows that we are separated. His cousin asked about me when he didn't see me at the apartment and husband told him that I was visiting my parents and that we were in the process of moving into a new apartment. I was the one that told his mom that I moved out. She didn't even know at first.

Thx for the 2x4s. They are hard to take but needed.