flowmom | need to commit to myself

[ImprovedRomeo]

flowmom, good job on the activities. Have you looked on meetup.com - I just joined a local mtn biking group through it.

You're doing good, just stay busy. As for the D, there's really not much you can do to stop it but stopping a D is not the solution to the problem anyway nor is it the end of the world. It's a piece of paper, really. I dreaded it for so long and then when she filed I got ready for it. A lot of people even report they get the closure and with that a peace of mind after being in a limbo for so long. Of course, you can still continue to work on getting your H back if you choose to do so. You can continue to date him if he turns around etc.

I know talking about D is depressing and I'm trying to make you see that it's not as dreadful as we may think it is. Of course, none of us wants to go there happily if could help it.