Mila, you trusted him with your heart when you got married. So since he has broken your heart, you really cant trust him with anything right now. I dont know why some men cant see that. Its like it was no big deal???? ugh! I would definitley NOT take out a second mortgage on the house. My H wanted us to SELL our house in the beginning and for me and the kids to get a smaller place that I could afford....so glad I went with my instincts and said NO WAY! Be careful and remember to protect yourself. You can not depend on your H to be here for you now. He is in the fog for sure. Just try hard to NOT let him get to you. Show him you are a strong woman that we all know you are!!
Thinking of you!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10