4luv, this is a self imposed limbo. The man is not doing any work to repair the marraige. IN fact after this last encounter. I think you have your answer.
Cut your loses and move on.

Smooth guy *sarcastically*. the swingers things was SO classy.

I would file adn chalk this man up to lesson learned.

I am baffled by the limbo. Limbo for what- he only showed sexual interest about you and shows himself to be selfish.

You are better than this and deserve better than this.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)