Starting Over (Again)

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TY Cautious, the feeling is mutual. Glad you visited my thread and gave me things to think about.

FYI, I keep this on my cellphone to remind me of what I need to do and my goals. I stole it from somebody else here and modified it a bit. Thought I would share it with you all:

Go dark! Do NOT contact her.
Detach!
Do not talk to old friends and family about her.
Let her deal with her issues and
the consequences of her divorce.
Let her call YOU.
Stop persuing, be the lighthouse.
Let her know I want her but don't need her.
Be a Friend.
Don't Monitor, spy, bug, nag, etc.
Don't be at every beckon call.
Support but from a distance.
Take care of myself and stay visible.

Goals for self:

Become an Alpha male.
Make myself attractive.
Exercise.
Diet.
Get enough sleep.
Cut back on the beer.
Update wardrobe.
Be a Man, not her doormat.

Anyway, see you next week. take care.