Thank you very much, chatterbug.
Again, incredibly helpful.

I need to work on speech to family. AND WHEN? After wife calls me?

Update on visa:
Work's top man told me the company will stand 100% behind me. The gears to sponsor me have been set into motion. Even if it takes time, they'll find a way to keep me employed either remotely, online, etc.

They said they'll understand if I need to take days off, etc.
Really really supportive.

One more thing off the list.

Relief.

Last edited by Fracesc; 03/23/10 05:10 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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