This is all crazy! I'm trying to figure out what is "addiction" and if it's possible to be responsible while using painkillers recreationally? I am trying to figure out the reality here.
Ultimately your H will have to decide if he's an addict:
But you have enough red flags to take this issue seriously IMO. Don't don't have to know for sure if your H is an addict to go to a naranon meeting. The stuff they will be discussing there is the same stuff that you are dealing with every day: self care, how to deal with not being able to control another person's toxic actions, how to set boundaries, detaching, etc.
Last edited by flowmom; 03/23/1005:09 PM.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
