This morning I received an email that my subscription (renewed monthly by automatic Visa payment) is canceled that payment was not authorized. Called WH and asked if he did anything with the account, I freaked out that he canceled my card.
He said that he was just setting it up online, maybe he messed up something. He got really offended that I would even think that he would do anything like that. I said that unfortunately I have a hard time trusting him right now. WH went on and on that I can't trow this "trust" in his face all the time. That he is a good person, he doesn't lie or cheat (ughh?) and that he doesn't know anymore how can he convince me. The only think that he lied about to me was his affair (he said it like that doesn't count or that it's justifiable).
I said that I'm really struggling with the trust issue, since he was the only person in the world I really trusted before. I also said that I believe that it's possible to rebuild trust with time.
Then he tells me that I need to separate the "personal" trust and the "business" trust. Just because what he did (lied & cheated for almost a year) that doesn't make him a bad person.
I don't think that I'm doing so well. Yesterday and today was full of confrontation and in his eyes blame and accusations. This is not good DB'ing. Help!!!
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
