K - I think your questions about what was wrong that he was open to leaving the M is great. I think the questions about what to change and how to fix things are great.
I think you are assuming a lot with your other questions. You are assuming he really was in love. You are assuming that he wasn't just caught in a web of his decisions, that he was actively making decisions to continue with her. You are also assuming that he will remember a lot of details that in all likelihood are a bit blurry to him, blurred by time and distance and emotion, not to mention the fog of MLC.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2