flowmom | need to commit to myself

[flowmom]

Jaime, this is the challenge. To love your H AND set appropriate boundaries and take care of yourself. Resentment and whining in your head doesn't get you further ahead in DBing or in taking care of yourself. I KNOW that you have 101 reasons to feel have those thoughts and feelings. But the challenge here isn't just changing the outer you, it's changing the inner you. And that takes a lot of reflection, soul-searching, processing, emotional work, etc.

Flowmom, I truly hope this is what you are doing for yourself.

Yes I am doing this for myself or I would feel like a fraud posting that on Jaime's thread .