She doesn't because you have been married a long time. She's insecure about being out of the M, on her own. She likes the perks of being M. She loved you, probably still does very much.
She convinced herself she had to leave, and she did. But she hasn't broken all the ties yet.
She's comfortable where things are right now. She gets to watch from a distance while still having the money and support of the M. Who wouldn't like that? LOL
No D papers in the mail is a good thing. Even if you get them though, it's not the end of the world, of the end of the M. You survived that once before.
Be consistent. Be kind and loving. Be a good father. And be patient.
You are lucky that you are not dealing with some crazy MLC spouse in a torrid affair. In some ways, that makes is so much easier.
In other ways it is harder because you have to be more consistent and more patient in order to turn things around (at least in my opinion ).
What are you doing for his birthday? I assume you'll call, send an e-card or some such? It'll be more fun in person of course.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
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