I think you are doing just fine. Keep it up. Continue to treat your wife with the same cordial manner in which you would treat someone you just met.

Do you know if she is still interacting with the OM? And I mean in an EA way.

WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09