Allen is right. The longer the possible D is delayed the more their "romance" will sour. What type of integrity does she have- she wants him to "take" the children from you and is pushing for an immediate D right after the worst event in your life. Oh wow, she's a peach, isn't she.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)