Allen is right. The longer the possible D is delayed the more their "romance" will sour.
What type of integrity does she have- she wants him to "take" the children from you and is pushing for an immediate D right after the worst event in your life.
Oh wow, she's a peach, isn't she.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)