Thank you june and allen. I agree that no one is that strong, but at the time I become so obsessed with saving my M that I couldn't handle anything else. It was not healthy. I would still like to save my marriage, but I know I can no longer obsess about it. I just need to take it one day at a time and hope for the best but expect the worse. No more pursing, calling, texting, etc. It's been hard this last couple of weeks, but the temptation is getting weaker.

I'm going to work on myself, for myself and focus on being a good mom. No longer focus on my H and his drama.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10