1. (Old goal) Effectively co-parent with H and address S4’s immediate behavioral needs. UPDATE: I am still working on this. I have setup a play therapy appointment for S4. Things with S4 have improved, but I still worry about him. Just the other day he asked me why daddy moved out and when he was going to come back home? His question broke my heart. H and I communicate on a regular basis regarding S4’s behavior.
2. (Old goal) H to ask about my day/life by inquiring how I am going. UPDATE: H has asked the typical question, “How are you?” But does not inquire about anything beyond that. I am working on answering his question with I am doing great. Today I yada, yada, yada… I am trying out this new ‘friendly’ thing.
No new goals yet.
Me & H: 33 yrs S: 4 & 6 D: 2 M: 9 yrs ILYBNILWY: 8/09 SEPARATED: 9/09 The Beginning