I agree with everyone on the thread, don't respond to that email. To me, it seems to be a thinly veiled attempt at keeping control, note all the "I" references, and his assumptions about you and your actions, etc.
Don't waste your energy on it, and it doesn't appear you are, good for you!
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."