Exactly... he won't take tehm because OW does NOT want that responsability... If she heard he was taking them that would bea HUGE dent in her plans.
If you can stall for a few more months she will just keep pressuring him and complaining that the D isnt happening... the more you stall the more SHE ticks him off... its a good setup for you from a strategic standpoint.
I think we know who his "source" is at this point... OW.
He needs to hear from people who tell HIM the OPPOSITE of what she's telling him (not you)
1. Back off on D 2. Divorces hurt children 3. mb28 does NOT want a divorce 4. You are divorcing a family that does NOT want split up 5. You wont' go to family therapy with your wife to work on anything
