How do I expose the affair

[june72]

With all this going on. I hope you can detach and focus on yourself. I posted on Flowmom's thread about the dead soldier analogy.
The benefit of facing your fears or worse case scenarios mentally to basically relieve anxiety and stress. To really think- well, if this man does D me then how will life be? How will I recover?
To really examine and face these fears helps you gain inner peace, I believe.

Enough about him. The focus obviously has to be about you and your healing form all this harm you have experienced. I think you have to find some activities that will bring you happiness- a hobby, socializing more, meetup.com groups. etc.

MB-the mental break was coming- no one can work 60 hour weeks, go to school full time, be a mother and have a hubby doing this. NO ONE is that strong. No one. Something has to give.

I hope you can move forward with a mental state of strength. That regardless of the outcome you will be ok. You know this about you.