God, FM, I so agree with you. Our MC was a total putz. Made things so much worse. My hubby felt hopeless. I felt frustrated.

I hope this new guy we are seeing is better.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)