Kalni,
I can understand you needing many of those questions answered. I believe that you can never move past an A together without discussing questions the LBS feels are pertinent. You may find with time and once some questions are answered that you may not have the need to know everything.
K, you keep insisting that your H was "in love" with this OW. It was not love! Everything they shared was based on a lie. True love is not based on lies. It was a fantasy, an escape, infatuation. The majority of WAS believe they are "in love" and that OP is their soulmate, so much so that they risk their M and entire lives to be with OP. We all know these feelings are usually temporary. Your H never moved in with OW when the two of you were S for so long. That says a lot.


Me47
H46
S13
M16
Piecing since May/09

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