Journaling:

Read some of the success stories today. Checked users' old threads (as much as was archived). Found a few gems: Detatch from the rejection, not from your spouse. Make yourself irresistable.

Resistance comes from negativity. We naturally move AWAY from things and people who make us feel slighted. In order to make ExCautious more comfortable, I will have to take away the negatives. I'm trying to remember to keep my mouth shut and stay on topic when discussing important issues.

Additionally, FYI to my friends here on the boards: I will be away next weekend. Thank you for being here for me while I go through this journey. I don't think I could be this strong without your support.


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.