Yes, thanks for that insight. I believe I can be completely detached. Yesterday evening, I did not talk with my wife at all. I like to know what's going on. I'd love to know how I can use the information to my advantage.

I notice my thread is up to page 10 and I may need to start a new thread, so if you are not able to post here, look for my new thread soon.

My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.