How do I expose the affair

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I did make it clear before and after the class last night, that I want to reconcile and stay married. My H just said "I don't see it ever working" I just told him I'm sorry you feel that way and that I can't control how he feels, but that I feel there is a chance for us. I told him the best thing for me right now is time, and asked him to please give me some time before divorcing. I asked him for a few months where we work on ourselves and then sit down and decide where to go from there. I think he is considering it, but he did say the advice he is getting is to take the kids from me and hurry up with the D. On that note, I know his oldest sister and her H are planning on inviting him over soon and talking with him about working it out with me.

The class wasn't what I expected, very little was taught about working out the marriage. However, the teacher did state that the best scenario for kids were married couples that didn't fight. The rest of the class was mostly all about co-parenting and the affects divorce has on kids. But they also stated that kids do get through this. Needless to say I was a little annoyed.

I've never heard from the OWH since his parents and OW's parents recieved that letter that stated she was having an affair with a married man. From what my H told me a few weeks ago, their divorce is almost final, and OWH and OW do not want to get back together.