Exactly. That's why they call it a 180: it's 180 degrees from what you would ordinarily do. It shows both YOU and your H that you're not so predictable.

If safety is your issue, get to know the security on board the cruise. Know where their posts are so you always know where to go or who to contact if there is trouble.

Meet some new people, try some new things (shuffleboard, maybe?), see the world. Discover something new about places you've already seen. I would love to take a cruise just to see the different styles of architecture, I'm getting sick of looking at all these cookie-cutter houses out here in the suburbs.


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.