Hi everyone has given you great advice and all I can do is re[eat some of it Your H wants you nto stay put..be available and not move on hang on a thread on the other hand he wants to explore life withour the responsibilities of a live in family with the financial stuff everyone is right these mlcers spend and spend for us who had known them so well for so long it is shocking to see how much they blow thru MY xh is in debt I have no idea how he spent 50,000 plus on credit cards in two years but I would seperate the finances--makwe sure your name is off any of his credit cards Give him no money of yours see a L*you dont have to file, just get info* create stability dor your kids you have to be the strong stable parent watch him from a far as you spend your energy on your healing and growth peace
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