Ok gonna be really blunt here hun sorry I dont mean to hurt you and I wouldnt dream off it as you know!

You are dealing with a drug addict, there is no working round one or getting them to get help as they cant until they decide too. Im am so glad you have finally realised that its not your fault, your H cant cope with life properly even on drugs! What you do or dont do isnt going to help. Honestly I wanted to come over there and smack you H when he said "Bluh I might not eat it" how childish is that..

That said keep on doing what you are doing in the most do it for you, if H gets a grip its a bonus.. I really IMHO think you should ask the L what their opinion on dealing with him.

So sorry I couldnt be around for you last night FB chat was being so naughty! Hang in there hun, always here for you even if over the other side of the pond.

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!