Key...KEY: THERE ARE TWO PEOPLE HERE. OUR SPOUSE'S CAN CHOOSE TO HAVE A MARRIAGE.
Man...think of how hard and how long we were all at this trying to save this. Even the backslides in the past told them what we wanted. It wasn't in them.
Totally agree Coach. Totally. You are a fortunate man to be able to have a person want to stay in a committed marriage. It IS a choice.
What my view on this is now: if...if...I were a millionaire, my STBXW would be feigning happiness and 'banging away' on the outside as the years went on.
Well, LOLOL, JMO.
I'm OK, right now, and just need to get this done. We have reached our rope with this stipulation and they had better get it done. I've caved on a lot of financial stuff. STBXW should cave on stupid legal lingo. As my atty wrote to her atty yesterday, keeping a 75% 'finders keepers' clause "only leads to further acrimony and future legal action." I love my L.
Now...ninja sex...where were we........
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Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
