The advice is wise and correct. Possible? Last night W and I dialogued (a RV thing). She misunderstood what I wrote to mean that she is not beautiful. (I was talking about the future, and wrote "I imagine myself walking with you into a room and introducing you to others that are younger and prettier, but smiling and showing others that I know I have something better than others.")
So I tried to clarify. I don't mean she's not pretty now, that I meant when we are older - ie we're both going to be wrinkly...
Her solution? She wants a separation again. First during spring break - wants me to leave. Then in the summer she wants to go see her family.
I accept that my comment could be seen both ways if desired. But to ask for a separation? That is why I just can't end the D just yet. Right now, we have until May. I need to know she's committed even if I say something that might hurt her accidentally.
I totally follow her anger if my comment was malicious. But accidental?? BTW - I woke up to find she had slept with the kids.
