The EA bomb dropped by misdirected text

[SoftHeart]

Hi snodderly,

Thanks for the quick feedback!

I used to be a paralegal in another life & I just spoke to an L who I worked with previously who advised openness, lest it be perceived as a 'grab'. So we decided that I'll send a quick text along the lines of:
'FYI - moved scholarship money into a separate account this morning...'

That way, he'll be informed. I'm not sure when to send it yet (don't want to hit him with it first thing in the morning AKA - his usual 'grumpy time' even before MLC!). I guess I'll do it after the auction dudes take away my grandmother's things so that I can lead with that...

Thoughts anyone?

The L also thought that we might 'run the numbers' to see if an SA with financial provisions would provide added protection, since the house is unlikely to sell too quickly.

Yes, letting go of the antiques is a painful choice that had to be made...it hurts a lot (and even makes usually non-angry Buddhist me a bit angry!)...

This whole thing is just so surreal and heartbreaking! I know there is nothing I can do to wake him up to what he giving up - everything that we worked for, the full and happy life we had - but I sure wish that some universal 2x4 would clunk him on the head and wake him up!

SH