Thanks Sandi. Its a good reminder. Reminds me a little of Meryl Streep in "Its Complicated" when she admits to XH that she wasn't perfect, either and she had made mistakes. Only she didn't have to admit anything because he had an affair, so he was the bad guy.
I guess I'm struggling with the forgiveness question myself, too, and Mom of 2 Cherubs question made me think of a lot of things as the LBS. It is always good to recognize and to want forgiveness from someone if we've hurt them.