Donna is right. Three Wednesday nights won't make your personality less "disordered"! She didn't get this way overnight.
OK....when will this thread lock......I've never had one go for so long.......maybe cuz I post less?
Annnnyyyyyywayyyyy...........got into it with GymWoman last night. Trying to keep too may balls in the air, and some of the egss occassionally fall on the floor.
STBX was, at one time, going to be deposed again today, after her lawyer brought the last one to a halt trying to settle. Gym Woman and I went to NYC this weekend, saw a great play, and stayed in Times Square. A really great time.
When she asked me last night if STBX was going to be deposed tday, I said "Oh. I don't know, I forgot to check"
I always defer to my lawyer. I hadn't heard from him, so I figured it was off.
Gym Woman is apopplectic and now thinks I'm delaying my divorce and stringing her along, despite a year and a half of good times (except STBX's behavior) As though I can call my attorney and say..."NO! I want my trial NOW!"
From my standpoint, I'm just letting the lawyer do what I hired him for. Because I am not being super-aggressive, she feels I now don't want to get divorced. Now, it couldn't be further from the truth. I can't wait to un=as& STBX It's never easy.
Some days, it was easier being in Salah-a-Din Province Iraq! A successful day was doing your job and staying alive.............
