Wow really Mish?? Well then he is a smart guy because the longer you go on ML more frequently you really do seem to get into a whole new level of closeness.
Bobbi yes I thought about it, but then I thought they are his photos so he should decide what he wants to do with them, but I am sure he will definetly want to bin them if he realised they were here!
The past rarely comes up, but sometimes something triggers it and I will refer to something I felt or did "when we were apart" and just that phrase is too much for him now. I think once these WAS come back and recommit it really is for them like it never happened, like some bad dream. Probably because they spend so long just wanting to forget about it and put it behind them. Who wants to keep reminding oneself of what an idiot you were and how badly you behaved? So seems he has effectively done that, which is good thing, as he doesnt seem to be guilt ridden anymore.
Maybe he has forgiven himself even, I think I will ask him that. I remember when we first got back togetehr and how sorry he was and how much he "hated himself" for what he had done and I kept saying, you need to forgive yourself as well, not just me forgive you.
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
