Originally Posted By: dgtal
You've probably lost a lot of weight...eat well

Expose to the OMW right away, even if you failed and you contact the wrong OMW. It took me some time (almost 4 months) to find exactly the OMW ID and confirmed her ID on FB. She never replied back, her 20 yo son did. He told me he will tell his mom right away She never did, but at least I was able to change/end the affair. That was about one year ago. Everything turned around for good. The OM didn't want to lose his family and kids. I even exposed to his boss, the District manager for a local major supermarket chain where the OM works.

I wish the best for you. The chances are higher than 50% the affair will "crash" after telling the OMW.


I've lost 3-4 pounds. Yes. Not feeling hungry, sleeping 3/5 hours if lucky.

My latest plan is to do this in synch (remember we're in different Time Zones)

Friday

4 pm Secure finances.

5 pm (my time). Expose to OM W and OM W sister. Full evidence. (She'll get her by 11 her breakfast her time zone or as soon as the sister arrives to her office)

*I'm hesitant to contacting OM W with too much anticipation as she will spill the beans before time to OM and OM will prevent my W. I do want to be the one Exposing to my W. To take this off my chest. Relief. I won't get that any other way.

6 or 7 pm (my time) Expose to W. In a public space, fairly far from home so that gives time OM W to digest bomb while W gets home and finds phone isn't working. My guess is W will go to a cafe near by with free wi fi.

7-8 pm Expose to W family by phone in this order: Mother, Father, Sister. Try and expose to cousin and his partner in person maybe (she's very likely to ask for their support first since they're here).

8-9 pm
Collect the rest of my from apartment. (W will be there and needs to open the door for me)

9 pm on Go dark. (question: even in W's family??)

Let me know what you think.

Last edited by Fracesc; 03/23/10 06:17 AM.

Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *

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