No obvious depression, or at least not really any different as compared to the last many years.
N/C or dim ALL THE TIME!! And for real, because I am way too busy trying to work full-time, raise the kids on my own, and have no idea how to deal with this R. But he always comes into my space, and if I stay too quiet he'll come at me through the kids.
And he knows that the most important thing -to me- was my R with him (though he says he doesn't believe me) and my family being all together.
I'll think about the OW thing, but it doesn't really add up, at least I don't think he left us for "the one". Though I do think he might like to find "the one" now, whatever that is.
