hey, I think if you read the For Men Only, you'll get some more insight to what was going on with your wife and what she couldn't tell you.
I haven't actually read that one, because she wrote For Women Only too, and I was very much enlightened by that one, so if it's as good as that, I can only imagine how good yours will be since she's actually a woman herself!
I am with you on being hesitant to try to make it work again. This time, when she wants to come back, make her work for it, and if she doesn't do the work, then you can set that boundary. I still believe, no matter what, you have a chance to R though. and you can possibly help her out of her darkness.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
