sounds like a good convo you had. next time, if there is one, ask him...exH...where do you want to be in your life? what do you think you can do to get there? Do you think you should do it alone, or try to get help from people who understand what your going thru?

just a thought. I think you could really help lead him in the right direction. and whatever you do, do NOT lead him into thinking he can start an R with you again that is more than friends/co-parents. If he proves to you for at the very least 1 whole year with no gf, then maybe maybe maybe, you could take a step in that direction, if you really wanted to. I realy would advise 2 years.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."