I wonder if the OW is really pushing hard for a D. I just am wondering what is going on with her and her hubby....
Can you speak to your husband beforehand and remind him that you are for reconciling?
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)