Flow if a D were to occur- it does not mean that the relationship recovery chances are done. There is a whole section here dedicated to D'ed but not done.
Perhaps your husband will eventually see the ridiculous in all of this. He obviously is not thinking straight.
Anyhow, your priority of course has to be the responsible parent and make sure your children are cared for financially. I have seen too many stories on this board where a person was too afraid to legally protect themselves financially afraid it would get the D ball rolling only to end up in dire financial straights. Sometimes bankruptcy.
BTW, was the $3000 Canadian dollars? What is the exchange rate now?
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)