"Try to duck the backlash when it comes... it's very upsetting."

Yeah. That's why I recommended "get out of the way."

Other than the OW H, the OW's family wants to believe the best of her. So do friends. If I hear one more time that "they are good people in a bad situation" I will barf. Good people do not break up families and cause trauma to children.

"True Love"....thanks Hollywood and Harlequin!




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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