"Try to duck the backlash when it comes... it's very upsetting."
Yeah. That's why I recommended "get out of the way."
Other than the OW H, the OW's family wants to believe the best of her. So do friends. If I hear one more time that "they are good people in a bad situation" I will barf. Good people do not break up families and cause trauma to children.
"True Love"....thanks Hollywood and Harlequin!
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread