OTMP, worst case scenario is that a D will eventually happen in the far future if things turn out really. You are not fully committing to working on things now though. Show her and commit fully to her. How can she be confident with this looming?
You love her, do NOT let fear rule you. As Dr. Phl always states there needs to be a hero here. Be her hero and watch her walls come down her fears and doubts eventually subside. If you really analyze things- she is fearful also. She has felt very hurt by all of this. Perhaps her feeling are invalid but never the less that is how she is feeling. Great hurt...
Every woman wants to feel truly deeply loved. Like they are extremely special for you. Show that you deeply love her with actions not just words.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
