"what is going on between your wife and so-n-so" that is how it was delivered to me. then the moving out and moving back in and the moving out and moving back and moving out. she is my next tuesday wife. I had to take a leave of absence from my career to take on a part time teaching job so I can be available for the kids. Sell my home and kick the renters out of my parents old house and move in there. Dont get me started on the money I lost on the cars.... maybe I should just divorce her and get it over with.
piecing? is that a reality?
Rob writes alot better then I do. read his stuff it might make alot more sense to you. Me, I had a wife trying to beat me with a stick, wouldnt talk to me for months, and yet, when I feel single and more like the boy she fell in love with of a sudden I am this golden coin. it is very interesting but i am not giving up who i am.
realize you may not save your marriage. you may find out things that make your marriage not worth saving. but dammit man. you can save yourself. the key is not to obsess about someone that is not obsessing about you.
someone told me in the begining of all of this, 'know yourself' and that is how I have tried to guide myself. its hard. I dare you to try it. IT'S F**KING GREAT TO BE ALIVE!
