Well, regarding that divorced man; you are on the right track..you are STILL married, and he needs to back right off.
Looks like you're on the right track, CW. Just stay detached and keep your emotional distance going...all you have is time at this point.
Looks like you're using that wisely.
Have fun painting.
I got you in my prayers.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.