Still notating positives although I'm not feeling it.
H got in a fit when I didn't have dinner cooked when he got here. One of the 180's I've done is to cook dinner every night (prebomb I only microwaved!). But for obviously reasons I didn't feel like doing anything for H or our "family".THank goodness Gno had reminded me to not react and keep doing what I"m doing...or I would have given H major attitude tonight. Gno advised to not do LRT so I kept DBing.... H started to storm out to the store to get his own meal. I asked if he'd pick up a few things and he started getting nasty.
I said straight =- "what is annoying you?" H gets all nasty and complaining and I just stayed calm. "I"m tired, I didn't plan a meal ahead, I should have, I want something fresh." I said I would cook and he said "don't because I can't guarantee how I"ll react or eat it."
I just ignored him and whipped something up. Some yummmy curry with rice.
H sat with his head on the table it was weird. I didn't react. I served some food even though he had threatened not to eat it.
He had three servings and I got a "thank you that was really good."
See previous thread for mealtime tortures which included refusing to eat my food and always complaining how awful it was.
