Helpful thread.

I exposed the A to one or two members of the OW family - now the whole extended family knows.

It's been reported back that I am now being made out to be the villian, the crazy one, and that my sms in which I exposed was 'really nasty'.

In fact, it was really nice and was the standard one recommnded here. Lesson is: families stick together!

I've also been told that no-one in OW's family is 'judging' the affair couple...in fact, many of them think it might be 'true love'.

Try to duck the backlash when it comes... it's very upsetting.