WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[MrBond]

Have you ever thought of confronting her about how she's treating the boys? I don't think you've ever done that. Rather than complaining about it on here, do something about it. It's not for you. It's for your boys.

While you can't tell her what to do, I would strongly describe to her how the boys are feeling. Especially now since she's very much in her selfish phase.

Dude you have to do this now. You've been letting her control your boys for wayyy too long. In the end, you want your boys to have a certain amount of respect for their mom whether you agree with her or not. You still need to give her a dose of reality.

Be firm without blame. That's the hardest part.

This isn't about saving your M. It's about saving your boys.