My story, what to do next.

[digger22]

My friend is going through the same [censored] as many of us with a WAW. His wife had a pa at work and he had been pursuing, begging.. ect. for the past 6 months. He finally went to an ic and really found himself again. he got set up on a blind date and they hit it off very well. I talked to him 3 weeks ago and he couldn't stop talking about his new woman and how far out of his league she is. He said the next day after he fell for his new girl, his wife told him that she could feel he was gone and immediately changed her tune. she began to beg for him back, threaten to kill herself, tried to hurt him. (this was also combined with her affair partner decided not to leave his wife). he told me he had heard the typical [censored] "i don't love you and i don't know if i ever did, ilybinilwy, i'm done, we're too different. after meeting his new gf, my buddy said he would never go back to his wife. she still is begging for him back every day. just a funny story on how powerful the fear of loss is.