I had a GREAT day today. The weather was great. Cleaned up the yard from the party yesterday. Helped my uncle and washed my jeep. Forgot to tell ya during the party yesterday, W was sitting with her cousin and some friends and started telling them about my going to school. Her cousin (who I talked about before as someone I have done a little talking to about “Problems”) did not know about it. W turned to me at the BBQ and said “How come you didn’t tell your Girlfriend about you going to school?” I said back to her “Well I don’t tell her everything, Mystery keeps things exciting” Don’t really know why she said that and I don’t know why I said it. I have a problem sometimes of engaging my mouth before my brain can stop me. Anyway everybody laughed. AND today I had wife look over a letter I needed to write for the grant. She looked it over and made some corrections (in red ink) but she was not judgmental and I did not take it personally. She even gave me some tips to think about when writing. It was great. She was treating me like she would a friend. Some where I read about how we get too comfortable with our spouses and this leads to being mean and treating them with disrespect. It said we would do things that we would NOT even do to a friend. This is doing true. I was so jellius sometimes when my wife (in the past) would talk to me rudely and yet when the phone rang be all chipper and nice to her friends,
Well I go to go pick up my D so I will leave you with this... You see it all around you Good lovin' gone bad And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago, Who told me, Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go If you cling to tightly, you're gonna lose control Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in
It's so damn easy, when your feelings are such To overprotect her, to love her too much And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago Who told me, Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go If you cling too tight babe, you're gonna loose control Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in
Don't let her slip away Sentimental fool Don't let your heart get in her way yeah, yeah, yeah,
You see it all around you Good lovin' gone bad And usually it's too late when you, realize what you had And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago, Who told me, Just Hold On Loosely, but don't let go If you cling to tightly, you're gonna lose control Your baby needs someone to believe in And a whole lot of space to breathe in
So Hold On Loosely, but don't let go If you cling too tight babe, you're gonna lose it You're gonna -- lose control yeah, yeah, yeah Just Hold On Loosely but don't let go If you cling too tight babe, you're gonna loose control
Hold on Loosely, but don't let go If you cling too tight babe, you're gonna loose control yeah, yeah, yeah By ~ D. Barnes, J. Carlisi, J. Peterik
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
