Journaling:

Hmmm. My dear WAW moving on and being free. Like a bird in a tree. Blahhhhh. Yeah, I can see it.

Had a pretty good weekend. Did so good at GAL on Fri night that I spent all day recovering from it on Sat. These college kids and their crazy parties.

Got the 'ol tax thing straightened out today. The Financial Aid Dept gave me the go ahead to file jointly with W so that we will get a refund rather than having to pay a huge sum to the IRS. Oh she was so greatful to me! She calls me by my first name now on a regular basis and it bugs me. We never called each other by our first names. GRRRR!

She wanted to give me the entire tax refund but I told her no. I told her we are going to put it towards the credit card debt we have (which thankfully is not much). That's about all of the debt we have together (no cars, prop, etc.) and I want it paid off ASAP.

The days are getting longer and the times I will have to interact with her are becoming fewer and farther between. I went to what I guess I should consider 'her' apt today and picked up the luggage so I will have it for Miami this next weekend. She has removed all of the identifying 'Mr. and Mrs.' tags from them. I guess she didn't want to get confused when she went on her shack up sessions w/ OM. Or maybe it might have reminded her of me - wouldn't want that when you have someone else boinking you ya know...

I was only in the garage of the apt (and she wasn't there) and it was weird being back there. It felt like I should be able to just walk upstairs, open the door, get a glass of water, and sit down on our couch. It was such an oddly familiar feeling.

Just looking forward to this weekend in MIA. Rumor has it W's Mom is coming to CA to visit her this weekend. I guess OM gets the weekend off - maybe he'll get a chance to ketchup with his W?


Me-32
W-29
No kids
ILYBNILWY 11.20.09
Separated 01.10.10
Discovered EA 01.13.10
W admitted to PA 02.21.10
I filed for D 03.09.10